My favorite personality test for the first date is to go to a crowded restaurant or coffee shop then watch the new man's behavior. If he checks out every chick that walks by, he's just not that into your presence or conversation. Some men just have this check-out ritual ingrained in their DNA. If you find this offensive, move on to the next. NO, he's not going to change.
Granted some women are just so outrageous looking both of you can't take your eyes off her. Often women take the offensive and point out different women to their man to monitor his reaction. What she really wants to hear is "WOW that girls hot, but so are you".
It's up to you to decide your comfort level in these situations. No one can tell you what to do, only give their own opinion.
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