Urban Dictionary's definition of a HOOKUP: Intimacy with a member of preferred sex that you do not consider a significant other. When said by age 50+, it probably means spending time together. For my purpose I am talking about hooking up for SEX.
1.Must be sexual chemistry or what's the purpose.
2.All parties must agree HU is purely for sex. NO STRINGS ATTACHED
3.Full disclosure is mandatory. Any STD's or other quirks must be discussed.
4.Sober is best, but a buzz is acceptable.
5.Practice safe sex. Take turns buying the condoms.
6.Sleep over is acceptable if agreeable to all.
7.Acceptable to ask for what turns you on.
8.Acceptable to decline if request does not feel right for you.
9.Show respect for each other. Do not answer the phone or text unless it is a legitimate emergency.
10. Either party can initiate another HU. Girls you don't have to wait for him to contact you.
11. When you do agree to another HU, show up or contact each other otherwise. Respect again.
12.If you never want to see each other again, just say NO. Have the courage to say NO.
I am sure there are many more situations that need addressing in this HANDBOOK FOR A HOOKUP. This is a work in progress. Many thanks to Robin for her contributions.
Wishing you all Happy Hookups!!
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